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Brit Shalom is a non-cutting naming ceremony which replaces Brit Milah (ritual circumcision) for newborn Jewish boys. It is not intended for boys who have previously been circumcised in a hospital. It can be similar to the naming ceremony traditionally used for baby girls. It may be performed by a Rabbi or other experienced lay leader. If desired, celebrants can aid parents in devising their own ceremony. It has also been termed Alternative Brit (or Bris), Brit B'li Milah (Covenant without cutting) and Brit Chayim (Covenant of Life). This list is continually being updated. UNITED STATES
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Rosalie Gottfried, Madrikha Hershl Hartman, Secular Jewish vegvayzer/madrikh/Leader Lissin Lev Chaya, Celebrant Susan Epstein, Cantorial Soloist Rabbi Yeshaia Charles Familant Cantor Linda Hirschhorn Jewish Milestones Jewish Milestones serves as a resource for individuals and families, having a network of rabbis and cantors, as well as lay and professional facilitators who design and officiate at rituals all along the life cycle. This includes Brit Shalom welcoming ceremonies for boys without circumcision. Rabbi Jerry Levy Mark David Reiss, M.D. Rabbi Nathan Segal Rabbi and Cantor Judith Seid There are other celebrants in California who do not wish their contact information listed publicly. Please contact Mark D Reiss, M.D. for further information. COLORADO P.O. Box 767 Boulder, CO 80306-0767 (303) 247-0790 m3pollack@comcast.net
Danya and Eyal Rivlin DELAWARE Phone toll free: (877) 779-0017 interclerg@aol.com http://www.interfaithclergynetwork.com/ DISTRICT of COLUMBIA 9039 Sligo Creek Pkwy #1410 Silver Spring MD 20901 (301) 563-6341 rav.bibi@verizon.net www.machar.org FLORIDA 3427 Winding Oaks Drive Longboat Key FL 34228 (941) 383-1149 Besttwo@aol.com ILLINOIS Kol Hadash Humanistic Congregation P O Box 405, IL 60035 (847) 347-3003 info@kolhadash.com http://www.kolhadash.com There are other celebrants in Illinois who do not wish their contact information listed publicly. Please contact Mark D Reiss, M.D. for further information. MARYLAND (See also DISTRICT of COLUMBIA) 9039 Sligo Creek Pkwy #1410 Silver Spring MD 20901 (301) 563-6341 rav.bibi@verizon.net www.machar.org There are other celebrants in Maryland who do not wish their contact information listed publicly. Please contact Mark D Reiss, M.D. for further information. MASSACHUSETTS 8 Thayer Place Brookline MA 02445 (617) 529-9483 dpgeller@humanist-rites.com www.humanist-rites.com Ronald Goldman Elaine Kamienny, Madrikha, Humanistic Jewish Clergy Sunny Schwartz, MSW, Madrikha/Humanistic Jewish Clergy Rabbi Elyse Wechterman MICHIGAN NOCIRC of Michigan PO Box 333 Birmingham MI 48012 (248) 642-5703 NormCohen@NOCIRCofMI.org Rabbi Miriam S. Jerris, Ph.D. Janis Levin-Gorelick, Counselor - Minister - Madrikha HSOF - LCSHJ NEW JERSEY Phone toll free: (877) 779-0017 interclerg@aol.com http://www.interfaithclergynetwork.com/ Rhea Bolasny Seagull, Certified Leader, Leadership Conference of Secular &
Humanistic Jews Glorieta, NM (Santa Fe area - will travel) (505) 349-4009 info@ritualartist.net www.ritualartist.net Rabbi Raymond Singer, Ph.D. NEW YORK Phone toll free: (877) 779-0017 interclerg@aol.com http://www.interfaithclergynetwork.com/ NYC The City Congregation for Humanistic Judaism Moshe Rothenberg UPSTATE Mona Sulzman, Spiritual Leader/Cantorial Soloist There are other celebrants in New York who do not wish their contact information listed publicly. Please contact Mark D Reiss, M.D. for further information. OREGON PO Box 5701 Eugene OR 97405 (541) 344-7945 Yehudah Alan Winter and Joanie Levine Rabbi Joey Wolf PENNSYLVANIA Phone toll free: (877) 779-0017 interclerg@aol.com http://www.interfaithclergynetwork.com/ There are other celebrants in Pennsylvania who do not wish their contact information listed publicly. Please contact Mark D Reiss, M.D. for further information. Congregation Beth David, Narragansett, RI 60 Neptune Street Cranston, RI 02920 (401) 486 -0110 eadler3@cox.net 9039 Sligo Creek Pkwy #1410 Silver Spring MD 20901 (301) 563-6341 rav.bibi@verizon.net www.machar.org
Deb Godden, Madrikha 235 S. Forest St Bellingham, WA 98225 (360) 671-1889 bhbrandt@earthlink.net Rabbi Jay B. Heyman, D.D.
CANADA ONTARIO (905) 889-7450 evagoldfinger@rogers.com
ISRAEL There are celebrants in Israel who do not wish their contact information listed publicly. Please contact Mark D Reiss, M.D. for further information.
UNITED KINGDOM LONDON 83 Clifford Road New Barnet Herts. EN5 5NZ (44 20) 8441 8779 jenny@goodlink.org.uk Dr. Goodman is experienced in Brit Shalom and keen to consult with parents and help them devise their own ceremonies, but she can not officiate. Laura Miller, Madricha, Humanist Jewish officiant
EUROPE GERMANY Postfach 740121 22091 Hamburg Germany +49 (0)40 287 81 187 humanrabbi@hotmail.com Rabbi Eckstein is a counselor or consultant for people who wish to learn more about Brit Shalom. He will not be actively officiating at ceremonies. . HUNGARY Philosophy Department Central European University Nador u. 9, H-1051 Budapest Hungary +36 1 327 3000 ext. 2557 h.benyami@gmail.com
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Mark D. Reiss, M.D. (revised 2010)
I am a retired physician, a Jew born in 1933 who is an active member of a Conservative synagogue, and a grandfather. When I was in Medical School in the 1950s, almost all newborn males in the US were circumcised. Despite the fact that prophylactic surgery was not generally performed, we were taught that circumcision was the correct and healthy thing to do. It was thought to control masturbation, decrease cancer risk, and help curtail sexually transmitted diseases. We learned nothing of foreskin anatomy or function. Infant nervous systems were thought to be undeveloped and their pain was so trivialized that it was almost ignored. As a young physician, I participated in many circumcisions. Over the years I've witnessed brit milah in the homes of friends and family. I was mildly uncomfortable with the practice, but like most physicians, and like most Jews, I said and did nothing to question circumcision. In 1999, as I was about to become a grandfather for the first time, my interest in the subject became more focused. I learned that more and more physicians now realize that any potential benefits of circumcision are far outweighed by its risks and drawbacks. The American Academy of Pediatrics has stated that "Routine circumcision is not necessary". Whether done by a physician in the hospital, or a mohel in a ritual brit milah, the procedure has significant complication rates of infection, hemorrhage and even death. Mortality may actually be higher than thought since some of these deaths have not been attributed to circumcision, but listed only under their secondary causes, such as hemorrhage or infection. I've learned of the very important role the foreskin has in the protection of the head of the penis in the infant, and in sexual functioning in adulthood. It has also been shown that the newborn feels pain even more acutely than adults do, and that many of the infants who stop crying during circumcision are actually in a state of traumatic shock. To my amazement I learned that the USA was the only country in the world routinely circumcising babies for non-religious reasons. With these overwhelming reasons not to circumcise, I began to look at the practice of ritual circumcision in the Jewish community and I learned that: circumcision is not an identity issue. You do not need to be circumcised to be Jewish any more than the need to observe many other Jewish laws. The bottom line is this: if your mother is Jewish, you are Jewish, period. And in the Reform tradition, patrilineal descent is also accepted. Among Jews in Europe (only 40% of newborn Jewish boys in Sweden are being circumcised), South America, and even in Israel, circumcision is not universal. Growing numbers of American Jews are now leaving their sons intact as they view circumcision as a part of Jewish law that they can no longer accept. Alternative brit b'li milah or brit shalom ceremonies (ritual naming ceremony without cutting) are being performed by some rabbis. Increasing numbers of intact boys are going to religious school, having bar mitzvahs, and taking their place as young adults in the Jewish community. As a Jewish grandfather, I want to assure young couples about to bring a child into the world, that there are other members of the Jewish "older" generation, including other Jewish physicians, and even some rabbis, who feel as I do. If your heart and instincts tell you to leave your son intact, listen! |